Does the title speak itself? I’m quite sure most of you didn’t get it in the beginning. Don’t worry, I’m going to explain briefly about it. Just take a deep breath…. Fuh~
Let us grab a pencil and simply draw a dot on a piece of white paper. What can see?.. Obviously just a dot right? Then try to elaborate that tiny dot. Let me explain in my terms.
First and foremost, I can say that dot people are those who afraid of challenges. They feel very safe in their comfort zone. They didn’t think any other initiative ways to make their life feel better. Secondly, this kind of person doesn’t look every hardship as a dead end. They didn’t take it as an opportunity or thinking of the solutions. They should have taken the chance to right the wrong instead of trying to ignore and just let the time passing by. In contrast, they take an opportunity on other people’s wrong without guiding them the right way. Other than that, Dot people love to look upon small matters and debating unnecessary issues. They also keen on discussing small mistakes as it should never be done. Remember, homo sapiens were not born to be a perfectionist. Back to the definition, Dot people also like to mock and cynically think about those who are running towards their dreams. They are thinking as a pessimist, not an optimist. Besides, they feel envious when looking other people achievements without giving any approbations. In a very simple word, Dot people are those who have “narrow-minded” development in their brains.
On the other side, instead of drawing a dot, try to expand your ideas by continuing your sketch and be a BIG PICTURE PEOPLE. Are you ready?
Big picture people are those who always look difficulties as opportunities and try their best to find the solutions. Also, Big picture people encourage other people who are facing failures in their life. They give motivations and provide alternative ways to deal with it. Big picture people care about the other and choose to not having a solitude life. Living in society is a must. These people rarely confined themselves and enjoyed life with the virtual world. Instead, they enjoy being part of the community and communicate with each other via the mouth, not WhatsApp or Telegram. Furthermore, these type of people always put a target in daily life. Everyday must have something special. They are getting bored of the routine that keep circling in their life’s cycle.
Do the explanations enough? So, let’s have a look a few examples of Dot people behaviours that happen in our daily life. Can’t you see them?
Did you realise that most of our community have the mentality of judging a person based on the first impression? They simply accused them falsely and spread the words to the other. Eee, how discourage is that. When a couple of guys selfie together in one picture and those keyboard-warriors accused them to be GAY. Oh Gosh!. They haven’t met for a long time and they tried to share the happiness with the world.They wanted to expose to the world the sweetness in friendship.So, who cares? Only Dot people try to steal that happiness. When Dot people see burglar pleading for donation, they accused them to be double agent who works with illegal society or at worst, only a disguise to buy the sympathy. Could you please shut up? If you didn’t like them just ignore them but please don’t make up any story of that pathetic human. Who knows what really happened to her/him? If you look at the title of this blog, Dot people will think that I have a dirty mind because using the word ‘virgin’. Oh, Come on man! Wake up. Does this word exist to portray bad words all the time?. Does gay always mean homo-relationship? It can also be considered to describe of being happy. Besides, our people easily fall trap in those lies from the mass media. Without further investigation, they simply judge people without knowing the real situation or stories, or at worst, they just read the title and give their opinions on that matter. How dumb our people. Yeah, when asked to finished your education with flying colours, you give filthy excuses about your failure and didn't learnt from it.
Other than that, as mentioned before, Dot people feel uneasy with other persons achievement. When a person just started a job, dot people discourse them by saying the job is not suit you at all or not having high salary and they will not long lasting for the job. Again, who cares? At least, they are doing something in their life rather than wasting time with social medias. When dot people see other people graduates with a good career ahead, they simply told the graduates that their career are not in demand or their qualifications are not enough or disqualified. How can our society have positive minds? Because we are drowning in this kind poor mentality.
Last but not least, Dot people are those who are being too humble and always think negatively when other people are talking about themselves. Being humble is not the problem. The problem is that with unnecessary ‘humbleness’ in certain situations. For instance, when a person is praising how beautiful are you today or how nice is your attire, dot people didn't take that as motivations but they denied the words with shy face or at worst, accused them of being sarcastic. Some “ narrow-minded” Muslim think that human should not be praised. Does Islam prohibit approbation? Then why you do ‘selawat’ to our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w? Islam is beautiful. In psychology school, praising is important as a vitamin to our soul. It can be taken as self-motivation and increase your mood for the whole day. When a person is praising you, the easiest way to acknowledge them is by saying “ THANK YOU” and praise him/her back. Can we have a nice conversation for the whole day? Can we really have tranquility with each other in this world this kind of mentality?
In a nutshell, which side are you? DOT or BIG.
If you are DOT, don’t worry there is always space for you sketch your life. Remember, you are the one who hold the peacock feathers and the black ink is just beside you. You decide yourself.
Best wishes from me and have a lovely day.
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